- 11 years ago
I think this is a case by case issue.
In my case it’s not that I simply dislike him, he is horrible to my sister, he is not a spouse, and they are "off" every other week…for instance the situation with him attempting to cheat on my MOH/sister with another Bridesmaid or Best Man of mine, and yes he knows she is one of my best friends, how stupid can you be…so his presence at my wedding that I have been planning for a year and a half would be quite upsetting to me and very awkward for others as well. I honestly refuse to let someone ruin my day when it is easily solved by saying they are not invited. (this is something to be done tactfully, I’m not out to hurt feelings or make a scene, it will be handled far in advance, and *crossing fingers* she will be dating someone else by then!