- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
So the day my fiance and I got engaged my mother in law started bossying us around right away. Since then it has been hell. She said we had to get married in the small town they are from. Her reasoning for that is because everyone is from there.. When really they aren’t. I gave into that and said ok. There was only a few venues we could choose from. I assumed it would be ok if I got married at one of the many familes houses there. My house is about 2 hours away. When I asked if she had a idea where the girls could get ready she got really nasty. She pretty much said I was not family. Family gets ready there and proceeded to tell me my fiance is getting ready out there because he is family. She told me to get ready at my house. I don’t think its fair after her insisting it had to be out there in their town. So I am left with that choice.. or to rent a hotel room for two nights. I would have to rent it for two nights because check out time is right in the middle of when we are getting ready. Here comes the next isssue.. Who stays with me the night before in the hotel? I don’t want to be alone. I don’t want to have to choose between bridesmaids. Especially since one is my future sister in law ( who I was forced to have in the wedding party) and if I don’t choose her I am sure will cause more issues. I want a room with a king bed so my fiance and I can spend our wedding night there. That’s why I can’t include all the wedding party because I want one king bed in the room, not doubles. Any advice??