Post # 1
So my Maid/Matron of Honor is a man. We have even numbers of BMs/GM, but I don’t know what to do about the Best Man and Man of Honor walking down side by side. Should they go one at a time? Do they walk side by side? We’ll be in a Catholic church, so we can’t get away with anything too sassy.
Post # 3
When you say “even numbers of BM/GM,” do you mean that there is a female standing on your FI’s side to balance your male MOH?
In that case, I would say have your best man escort the woman on your FI’s side (they both step to the right when they reach the end of the aisle) and have your Maid/Matron of Honor escort one of your girls (they both step to the left when they reach the end). The other couples can divide at the end like they typically would.
Post # 4
Every wedding I’ve been to had the groomsmen and best man and groom walk in from the side all at once, then the brides maids and Maid/Matron of Honor walk down the aisle one at a time by themselves. If you did it this way, your Maid/Matron of Honor could walk alone
ETA: I just realized you probably meant after the ceremony is done. I don’t think in that situation it would be weird to have your Maid/Matron of Honor and the best man walk out together. It’s usually quicker than walking in and much less formal feeling, most people are more focused on other things at that point.
Post # 5
@KCKnd2: I wish it were that easy – what I mean is we have 4 people on each side of us, but I have three women and then a man where the Maid/Matron of Honor usually stands, and he has four men in a row.
I really like that solution though – if he had a woman on his side we would totally do that!!
Post # 6
have the Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man walk out 1 after the other.