Post # 17
When I went to pick out my invitations all of the samples had the woman’s name first, so that seems to be the norm. I wouldn’t switch that. It is strange that it’s always “husband and wife” though, but I don’t think it’s worth changin!
Post # 18
I would leave it as husband and wife because that’s usually how people same them together. And most invites (ok all) I’ve seen put the woman’s name first.
so I think it’s ok to leave those as is
Post # 19
I think they look great, but I would prefer the “paragraphs” of writing on the invitation to be a size smaller font.
Post # 20
I love your invites & RSVP card. Very unique. I also agree with @kes18: keep the husband & wife (wife & husband sounds has a weird flow) and your name goes first.