(Closed) Proposal soon?

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I am in a sismilar situation where there are so many signs and the timing and place are perfect.. except my ideal proposal situation is this weekend! 

Maybe this is just me being hopeful for you and having similar signs with my bf, but it looks promising, especially because of the specifics of the location. What you have to be careful of is convincing yourself it WILL happen, it happens so easy with all these little signs adding up and wishful thinking. Try to find it in yourself to focus on the relationship you have NOW and the possibility that he will not propose then. That is what I am trying to do… I dont know about you but if I convince myself its going to happen and then it doesnt, I would get pretty grumpy and be worrying about why it didnt happen.. and you dont want to ruin the rest of your vacation being unhappy confused and worried. 

 

Enjoy and good luck! Please update in September! 

Post # 4
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@georginarevell25:  Well I’d say that it’s entirely possible, but then again it is a bit weird of him to say no to marriage. If my boyfriend said that to me, I’d freak out. I understand if he’d do things to make you think the proposal isn’t coming… even if he said things like “nah it won’t happen for a while” vs. the whole not getting married thing. I guess you know him better than we do, but I just find it odd he’d say something like that. Pretty extreme way to keep a surprise.

Post # 5
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1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think it’s possible he’ll propose in Greece, but speaking from experience (and from knowing lots of waiting ladies), it’s really not a good idea to get your hopes up.  Then if it doesn’t happen, you’ll be really disappointed and upset.  So I hope for your sake he does propose in Greece, but remember to have fun and try not to think about it too much or to have too high expectations!

Post # 9
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@georginarevell25:  Well in that case he probably is keeping something under his sleeve but like the previous posters said, try not to get your hopes up TOO high. It’s entirely possible that he’s got some crazy surprise in his head.. like throwing you off by not proposing in Greece since he’ll know you’re expecting it. But you never know. I hope he proposes in Greece – that would be so romantic. I’ve always wanted to go there.

Post # 11
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@georginarevell25:  my Fiance proposed to me in Greece just a few weeks ago! it was absolutely perfect. AND it was my dream also but he made damn sure i thought he wasn’t going to do it then, as much like your SO, he is a very extreme planner. so i didn’t expect it but in hindsight there were a few hints here and there that i could have picked up on! i really hope it happens for you then, but even if not, it will happen soon anyway 🙂 

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