Post # 1
My engagement ring is either already here or very nearly here (within a day or two) and I know a proposal will happen soon. Proposing in a special way is important to my SO, so it’s his show. Whatever he wants to do is fine by me.
We don’t argue often. I think we’ve had 4 fights over a year, which I think is pretty normal. So, of course we have to get into an argument last night right during the time he’s about to propose. Nothing terribly serious, but still makes me feel a little shaken.
It’s mostly resolved, I think. We slept together, all wrapped up in each other and kissed and hugged before he went to work this morning. It’s all likely fine, but it’s hard not to feel that this is fine timing, you know?
Post # 3
I wouldn’t worry. It’s a high stress time for both of you, he’s probably nervous and you’re excited. You’re going to argue throughout your relationship, doesn’t mean that one disagreement means anything terrible is going to happen! You’ve made up, relax and enjoy the last few days of waiting 🙂 fingers crossed it’s super soon!
Post # 4
@gatystar: Thank you for your kind comments. They’re very appreciated! I hope it doesn’t affect things. I doubt it will, but fine timing, dontcha know.
I agree, it’s high stress right now. To my SO’s credit, he’s very good at moving on from disagreements, as I am. He doesn’t hold grudges. Our arguments can get a little passionate at times, which is probably why I feel like this. We are both strong-willed, big personalities and very emotive, to put it mildly. Makes for lightening striking when arguing sometimes.
At least the ring is being delivered to my future in-laws house! We have a wonderful relationship and they love us together. If he didn’t propose soon after he picked up the ring, they’d be asking questions. That’s why I love them 😉
Post # 5
Ah, there is nothing to worry about. I got a long, very heartfelt and sweet letter with a sincere apology from him a little while ago. He’s at work, so we can’t really talk.
This is so stressful. I can’t wait for him to propose and just get this show on the road already.
Post # 6
@RedAngelDreamer: Glad to hear he apologised and you worked it out. I’m sure the proposal is right around the corner so just enjoy the time you have together now before all the hoopla begins.