(Closed) Proposing at someone else's wedding……..

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 91
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Was this guy raised by a pack of wolves? No home trading at all. I’d kill him.

What made him think that he could just take advantage of the romantic night the bride and groom planned and paid for, and use it for himself? Now they, for sure, better cover their fucking plates.

Post # 92
121 posts
Blushing bee

I feel sorry for this couple… and I find it crazy how quickly people are judging. Apparently the bride and groom had known about the proposal and the girl proposed to is the bride’s sister!

Post # 93
6003 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

My god do we live in a selfish world…

movingbee:  I read the article that cleared all this up and even before that I felt so bad that people would have a problem with more love being celebrated on someone’s wedding day. I read that the bride is the one who suggested he propose at that moment. And it was her SISTER!!!

Post # 94
244 posts
Helper bee

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SaraJeanQ:  I’d agree that it’s unconventional, to put things nicely,  but if the bride and groom wish it then it’s up to them how their wedding is run. They had a great day it looks like. 

Post # 96
418 posts
Helper bee

I still find this very tacky,  but if he had the “permission”/support of the bride and groom then i guess good for them.  Personally even if the bride was on board I would never feel comfortable if my BF proposed at someones wedding.  

Post # 97
1470 posts
Bumble bee

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incognitogirl:  It’s “up them how their wedding is run”?  It’s not up to them when another man proposes, no.

Post # 98
9387 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

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SaraJeanQ:  It’s up to them because they gave permission.  If they had chosen to, they could have said no.

Post # 99
10357 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Well now we all know it was OK with the  bride and groom,  that’s good. I hope it was OK with the girl being proposed to though, personally I would have hated a public proposal  at my sister’s wedding !!

Post # 100
2413 posts
Buzzing bee

The Maid/Matron of Honor being proposed to is the bride’s SISTER, and the bride REQUESTED that the proposal be done at the reception, just as it was.

Is THAT OK with everyone?

Post # 101
86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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NFLwidow:  I love the way you put it: “may we be next?” in the car on the way home. Perfect!


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