(Closed) Purely Annoyed…

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Member
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Mrs McCain 2012:  When some people say “what do think/what would you do?” They are really asking for you to “tell me that you agree with me” or “tell me what I want to hear” and when you don’t they get a big old fashion wedgie and start to cry.

Post # 4
Member
1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs McCain 2012:  I think people need to remember it is just the internet and not get so upset when someone else has an opinion different than they do.  That is the beauty of this place, is that everyone has something different to contribute. 

 

And I def agree with Broken Biscuit and think that most just want validation that what they want/think/whatever is right. 

Post # 5
Member
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You’re not alone! See this thread….

Post # 7
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Broken Biscuit:  +1, this is exactly what causes the problems. I just want to be like, “PEOPLE. Seriously. If you’re going to get upset and/or wayyy over dramatic if people do not disagree with you, save yourself the freaking time and don’t post it ona  public message board!”

Post # 9
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2783 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is one of my pet peeves….if all you want is for everyone to agree with you/tell you how brilliant and right you are, then just say “this is a vent”…don’t ASK FOR OPINIONS, because guess what? You’ll get them.

Post # 10
Member
7291 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I noticed the Hive has a group period every month. There has been tons of “whats up with the Bee” posts today and its just the beginning!. This happened last moth, and the month before etc

I know its frustrating when you are just trying to give advice and the OP or others jump down your throat. You just gotta let it roll and be super selective on what you get yourself into cause sadly it will get under your skin!

Post # 12
Member
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

This happened to me a while back and I actually deactivated my old account because I was so over it. It must’ve been that time of the month for the bee when this went down. I missed the hive too much to not come back, but yeah, I definitely know where you’re coming from!

Post # 13
Member
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Mrs McCain 2012:  because they just want to be validated. Fortunately this group is full of real people with real opinions who are not afriad to share them. Unfortunately, some people do not know how to properly express opinions.

Post # 14
Member
1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Eva Peron:  “group period” funny but what a terrible mental image!!! lol

Post # 15
Member
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsElopement:  This reminds me of this girl back in high school who would sit there and play with her hair and complain about it all day just so the other girls would tell her that her hair is pretty. One day we were alone and there she was again complaining about her hair to me…I just looked at her and said “well that sucks” and she looked at me all shocked that I didn’t give her any compliments. Seriously, I’m not a magic mirror that’s going to tell you that you are all that and a bag of chips…move on. Validate yourself people! 

Post # 16
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9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.Argentina I was thinking the same. 

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