(Closed) pushing him? help (kindda long)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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32 posts
Newbee

Hey, I kind of know what you’re going through. At the beginning of our relationship, my bf used to say similar things. After discussing the issue further, it was far more a reflection of his lack of self confidence than anything to do with our relationship. Whenever he mentioned something along those lines  (like ‘I don’t deserve you’ or ‘you could do so much better’) I reiterated the reasons that I chose to be with him and he soon started to recognise his worth!

It sounds like with you guys, it may be more to do with stressing about finances. Even if it doesn’t worry you, maybe try and talk to your Fiance a little more about this and offer him full support. He’ll soon recognise what the real problem is and appreciate you all the more for looking out for him..!

 

Post # 4
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158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You sound like me. i dont care about the money either. However my mom explained it to me best. There are somethings that men who are raised a certain way expect to be able to do. And when they arent able to do what they THINK they should be doing it frustrates them and makes them feel inadequate no matter how content the other person in the relationship is. With that being said, the best advice that i can give is to stand by your man. true love will prevail!!!

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