(Closed) Put a ring on it already!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Hi there. Welcome.

I think after that point you have every right to bring up a more real discussion. For your own sanity, before you’d consider leaving. And that does not need to involve pressure or bullying. Not at all.

How do you communicate with your SO?  When you are relaxed and having a heart to heart, be honest. Say how you care about him and want to be with him, but need to know more exactly how he sees you in his future. Say, yes you talk marriage, but what does that mean to you and when do you see it happening. There is a way to delicately tread without making demands or ultimatiums. Just feel him out. Perhaps he is closer than you think? But you won’t know if you dont’ try to ask. Good luck!

Post # 4
1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@nambi_pambi:  If you really want to know how your SO feels and need a specific timeline for an engagement, then the only thing to do is sit him down, have a heart to heart, real, open and honest discussion and don’t let him leave until you have answers. Obviously you don’t want to put pressure on him so do it gently and express your love for him and your desire to be his wife one day. Be clear that you don’t want to rush him if he isn’t ready but you need to know when he might be ready so that you can put your mind at ease. If it’s important to you, it should be important to him too. Good luck!

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