(Closed) Putting Save the Dates in with Invitation?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Considering my situation, should I mail the STDs separately or with the wedding invitations?
    Mail them separately, even if it's only a short time span apart : (40 votes)
    80 %
    Mail them together. Why waste the postage? : (10 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 17
    933 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Since you said you definitely want to mail the Save-The-Date Cards, I would include them with the invitation. But, it is weird.  Can’t you just scrap the Save-The-Date Cards and maybe have a large poster of the photo collage that he made at your shower or at the wedding?

    Post # 18
    615 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

    Don’t send the Save-The-Date Cards. The whole purpose of them is to give guests a heads up of when the wedding is. If you pair them with the invitations, it’s redundant and will definitely make people go, “huh?”

    Post # 19
    3570 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would not send them at all.  They should have been sent a year ago.

    Post # 20
    11744 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Don’t send them out.

    Post # 21
    3725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Weetzie:  +1  Dont send them!

    Post # 22
    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I wouldn’t send the save-the-dates.  What’s the point? I know it’s a waste of money not to, but it’s kind of nonsensical.

    Post # 23
    1845 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    There’s no poll result for “don’t bother sending the STD’s, there’s no point”

    Post # 24
    718 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Same with everyone else – don’t bother with the Save-The-Date Cards, people will be confused. If you send them separately, people will assume that’s the invitation and I promise you they will just start RSVPing (flooding you with calls, emails) because they’ll assume that’s what they need to do. So DEFINITELY throw that option out the window. If you have to, put it with the invite if you don’t want the Save-The-Date Cards to go to waste.

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