(Closed) Qualities in your FI

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
2123 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

We’d only been dating a month or so but he came over to my place when I was in a total panic because I hadn’t packed my stuff when I was moving apartment the next morning. He totally saved me. He then rented a car and loaded everything in and drove us to my new place and unloaded everything. Then he paid for lunch and left me to unpack. I was in love!
Quaility- utter selflessness!

Post # 18
8575 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

There were alot of things that I was looking for – the list is as follows, going by importance.

1. Wanting kids & open to adoption.

2. No drugs. AT ALL.

3. No smoking. AT ALL.

4. Doesn’t drink often – a drink at special occasions is okay.

5. Work ethic.

6. Humor/personality. [taking & dealing jokes!]

7. Ability to move forward & adapt to situations – lets things roll off his shoulders.

8. Loves animals.

9. Treats me like a lady [he opens doors, carries in groceries, never lets me touch the garbage].

10. Good attitude towards others – Compassion.

11. Goal oriented – has a good idea what he wanted out of life, and how to obtain it.

There were a few others, but the first 6 were deal breakers.

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