(Closed) Quality Time together

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who plans most of your outings together?
    Me : (26 votes)
    49 %
    My SO : (1 votes)
    2 %
    We're about equal : (26 votes)
    49 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’d say we are about equal.  But really, most of our quality time together isn’t explicitly planned.  It just happens organically.

    Post # 4
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    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I plan everything.  Well, I give Darling Husband options of what he wants to do.  He likes it that way.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My Fiance and I plan together, but we have so many hobbies in common that it makes it really easy.  We’re definitely both homebodies though, so trips for us are usually vacations somewhere.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We plan things together most of the time, like evenings out for dinner and/or drinks.  We enjoy sports bars and out of the way little places with live music.  We’re both outdoorsy so, when the weather is nice, we spend time at parks, lakes, hiking trails or having a picnic somewhere.  And there’s a wonderful mall we like with a lot of outdoor space, movie theaters, restaurants and bars, plenty of designer shops. We also plan beach or mountain trips fairly frequently. 

    My husband is wonderful at coming up with great out of town trip plans and special outing ideas, though.  For instance, last New Year’s Eve he planned a romantic trip for us, booked us a luxury suite downtown in our capital city, right in the middle of the action.  We took a couple of days off work and completely enjoyed ourselves, got to see the “ball” drop from only a few yards away, drinks in hand for toasting in the New Year.  He thought of it, made the arrangements and drove us there.  All I had to do was pack.  It was fabulous.  He’s good like that. 

    He makes traveling easy and fun for me.

    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I don’t know. We don’t really plan it. Now that we have a baby in the picture, we try to get it as much as we can.

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Legare Waring House

    It varies. We have some of the same interests, and some completely different ones. We’re also LDR right now, so almost all of our time is planned!

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

    Boyfriend or Best Friend doesn’t have the largest bank account right now and I know that he’d probably rather just play guild wars XD generally I’m happy to pick up the slack and try to suggest a restaurant or an outing or find a new series for us to enjoy. And I’m happy to pay for it most of the time (he doesn’t always let me lol).

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