Post # 1
okay, so if it is a family living in one household is it okay if I address the STD as The ______ Family? And do I need to put Mr. and Mrs. for those individuals without childres? And for those who we are giving the option to bring a guest should I put and guest on the envelope.
I’m not sure, since I know that Save the Dates are less formal then the invites. Please help!
Post # 3
So are you only doing save the dates? Save the dates are just to have the guest save this date on their calenders. I sent out save the dates and we did “The ________ Family” on guest with more then 2 in a household. We also did Mr and Mrs on married guest and then on other guest we did Mr ? ? and Ms ? ?. However, we also did this to guest with a unmarried spouse (like a long term boyfriend or girlfirend). I didn’t set expectations on guest bringing guest until we send out the invites. I feel depending on the feedback from the save the dates we will allow ALL guest to bring guest. The out of town guest are allowed to bring guest but some of the in town guest may not be able to bring guest depending on how many guest we have coming from out of town. Our guest list is like 80% out of town and only 20% in town. I hope this helps.