(Closed) Question about alcohol consumption for the ttc/preggo/nursing bees:

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Dosn’t bother me.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Doesn’t bother me! Ill sip or smell their drinks though.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Not at all. I honestly think it would be rude of me to expect my friends to not drink just because I can’t.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It doesn’t bother me but I wasn’t a huge drinker to begin with. I stopped drinking all alcohol when we were TTC and I essentially live vicariously through everyone else, including Darling Husband. Haha

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I drool a little but it doesn’t annoy me. I miss my good wine.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

@Ashley_P:  I don’t think it’s rude at all. She’s not pregnant, she can have whatever she wants to drink.

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Doesn’t bother me!! 

It bothers some people a lot, though. I went out to dinner with a friend once when I was two weeks from turning 21, and she ordered a beer, not thinking about it. She apologized for like an hour! 

It would bother me if said friend got schwasted, because that’s just rude regardless. But one or two and not feeling it? No problem.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That would definitely not bother me. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Ashley_P:  Doesn’t bother me! My Darling Husband does it too! I am jealous, but I don’t mind at all! 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Narrawallee reserve/beach & Mollymook golf club

@Ashley_P:  Doesn’t bother me. Just because I’m pregnant doesn’t mean she has to act it too.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Why would it be rude? She isn’t pregnant.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If I was pregnant, I wouldn’t care, because I don’t like alchohol anyways, and I there are a lot of other healthier options to choose from! But I could never drink in front of someone who couldn’t. I’m hyper-sensitive to other people’s feelings, I never want to make someone feel bad or like they’re missing something.

 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

Never even thought of this. I would honestly think it was rude if she expected me not to drink around her. If I couldn’t  drink around a pregnant or Breastfeeding friend then I wouldn’t be drinking for the next 5+ years because my friends are rotating baby makers and there is always 1 of them at any given time that can’t drink.

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