- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
I’m trying to decide if it would be rude to get each of my bridesmaids’ measurements so I can order and pay for their gowns myself. I know it sounds weird but it’s mainly for selfish reasons . I went shopping with one because the other 2 could not make it (one is in nursing school all day, and the other lives 2 states away) and she refused to try on anything in the length I wanted “because they’ll look like t-shirts on me” (she’s 6’2″) and she refused to listen to me or the consultant when we tried to remind her they can and will add length to the dress so I went ahead and let her pick 2 long dresses out. At the time they were going to buy the dresses so I was going to just let them choose so they could be happy, but now the other 2 bridesmaids do not like the dresses the first girl liked. It’s so frustrating because I’m trying to make everyone happy and completely throwing what I wanted to begin with out the window and my Fiance wants to kick the the first bridesmaid out of the wedding because she is upsetting me and screwing up the theme we love. I just don’t know what else to do and I feel guilty that they may not like what I have picked out for them or they may feel like I’m being rude for buying the dresses at all.