Question about Thank You cards

posted 5 months ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Helper bee

uhm i wouldnt i dont think…Thats a tough one though

Post # 3
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Helper bee

If the card included a check or monetary gift, then absolutely.  For just a card, I would send a text, call, or email along the lines of “Thank you so much for your beautiful card and well wishes. You were very much missed at our celebration!”

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

No, I don’t think you need to send a Thank you for someone who only sent a card.  If it included  gift, then yes, like you said.

Post # 6
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Busy bee

No – what would it say? “Thank you for the card?”. It was very nice of them to send well wishes, but anything more than a text like, “got your card – thank you! We’ll miss you at the wedding!” would be too much

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Thank you cards to someone who attended or gave you a gift, but I wouldn’t send a thank you to someone who just sent a “congrats” card. 

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper

Thank you notes are generally for gifts only, not cards or attendance. Typically no thank you note is appropriate for attendance only, since that can be interpreted as a passive aggressive reminder that one did not receive a gift. But that is assuming a wedding local to the couple or their family. I would make an exception for a destination wedding, which can impose big costs and demands of time on guests. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

I lol’ed at the idea that you would “very much miss” anyone who was not at your wedding. Who is that important, on your wedding day?

 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Pearson Convention Centre

I sent thank you cards to everyone that attended our wedding, or gave us a gift, or sent us a card.

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