(Closed) Question about the bachelor party

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Member
538 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ihopethisainttaken:  The dual party sounds like a great idea! Even in her stressed state, a night out could be just what the doctor ordered to help her unwind. I’ll admit, before my wedding I pondered irrational, unthinkable things that had never phased me before (yes, I also worried about Fiance having strippers at his bachelor party)…and these worries were all a culmination of the stress of planning, and feeling as though I was losing control of the planning (I’m a HUGE Type-A person). This, in essence, happened to make me a bit batty! In hindsight, both my husband and I wished we would have had a joint party. His was a fun weekend out at the lake, and mine was a drunken night of shots and making people sign a huge inflatable penis…haha! I think she’ll appreciate the evening together, just the two of you and close friends. Just explain to her that you want to have a joint party because it will be more fun with her, and not because it will quell her worries.

Post # 5
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538 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ihopethisainttaken:  Waiting a day or two is a very good idea, I agree. Hoping everything goes well between the two of you, and that you come back with positive updates! 

Post # 6
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

this seems like more of a trust issue.

 

why don’t you both have your parties on the same night (keep her mind off the jealousy while shes out) and then you all meet up at the end of the night somewhere?

Post # 7
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594 posts
Busy bee

@ihopethisainttaken:  I love the idea of a dual party for you guys! I’ve got the same feelings toward “traditional” bachelor parties as your fiance (mostly because I had an ex Boyfriend or Best Friend who cheated at a buddy’s bachelor party, but that’s another story…) and I know I’d be relieved to hear you were considering a dual party! Have you mentioned it to her yet?

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