Post # 1
I think I know the answer but…. Do I inherit FI’s bratty, childish, jealous SIL as my own? Does she become my SIL or just simply my husband’s SIL or my bro in law’s wife? I just might jus refer to her as the latter no matter the right answer. Hmph! I soooo do not want to inherit her:( What do you say, Bees?
Post # 3
She’s your husband’s SIL or BIL’s wife. You don’t have to keep her.
Post # 4
I think so, it’s me that has the BIL and my Fiance calls him his brother in law, but maybe we’re weird?
Post # 5
Awesome. She’s not mine. Its settled 🙂
Post # 6
Ha ha! I’ve wondered the same thing. But I like my husband’s SIL. For ease of convo, I just call her my SIL.
But I suppose if you don’t want your’s, you don’t have to have her.
Post # 7
Yes she does become your SIL! Family is family!
But you don’t have to best friends with her!
Post # 8
my fiance calls my brothers’ wives his sisters. i call them my sisters.
my brother’s wife’s sister is a brat, i call her “rachel’s sister”,
my other brother’s wife’s brother, i call my brother in law in law.
Post # 9
Based on Wikipedia (awesome source, I know lol), I think you are:
A sister-in-law (plural sisters-in-law) is the sister of one’s spouse, the wife of one’s sibling, or sometimes the wife of one’s spouse’s sibling
Post # 10
@hissoon2be: I am in the same boat as you! My FI’s SIL is SO obnoxious! Spoiled, annoying, selfish… I do not want to be *related* to her! I will most likely refer to her later as “my BIL’s wife” though, haha.
Post # 11
haha, that’s great. We get to choose!
Post # 12
My husband’s sister is my sister-in-law. Not my sister. I call my husband’s wife my sister-in-law, in-law–even though we’re both really happy to be sisters! All my husband’s cousin’s wives– we joke that we are cousin-in-law, in-laws. I don’t know if that will change in the future. I guess it’s overly specific… but we’re all newlyweds so we’re all getting used to it. 🙂