(Closed) ?QUESTION? does his wedding band have to match mine in trems of metal?

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

no, not in my opinion.

Post # 4
225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I wouldnt think so. My Darling Husband has a tungsten band and mine is two tone yellow and white gold. It would all depend on how traditional you want to be.

Post # 5
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

He likes silver tones (white gold, etc.), but I like gold tones. My rings are gold, and his is some white-goldish metal. I don’t see the problem with it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t think so, either. It’s cute if they match, but definitely not a requirement. As long as you both have rings to show that you’re married, that’s all that matters in my book. 

Post # 7
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Mine is white gold and we are looking at black tungsten for him…. I think it’s all about how you want it to look and if it bothers you to have different.

Post # 8
627 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It’s totally up to you and what you and your Fiance prefer.

It was something that was important to me (I think it’s a bit more traditional) so we discussed types of rings before we were engaged. He picked yellow gold, so that’s what all of our rings are made of.

But they definitely don’t have to match. It’s all personal preference.

Post # 9
5667 posts
Bee Keeper

It’s a personal decision, it definitely doesn’t have to match. We’re both going to end up with platinum but not because we “have to match.”

Post # 10
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

It doesn’t matter if they match, it just matters if it’s what you guys want. Mine is a platinum eternity band and his is a grey gold band. They don’t match in any way.

Post # 11
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Not in my opinion. 

Mine are white gold and FI’s is black. 

It all looks awesome next to each other but to me it wouldn’t matter. 

Post # 12
3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Nope! Mine is 14k yellow gold and his is tungsten.

Post # 13
11390 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

No! My rings are white gold & my husband’s band is tungsten. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 14
198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Although ours are both white gold, they dont match at all. I think you should both get what you want. Matching isnt important – what’s important is the vows they represent ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I have that ring in white gold it’s 1.5 carats and so pretty LOVE it

Post # 16
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think this is really a matter of opinion.

My e-ring and wedding band are both 18k white gold, and FI’s band is tungsten. ๐Ÿ™‚

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