(Closed) ?QUESTION? does his wedding band have to match mine in trems of metal?

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 17
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11050 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My husband’s and my ring don’t match exactly, but they match in terms of colour appearance. Mine’s platinum, which matches my e-ring. To get a platinum man’s ring would’ve been dearer because obviously they’re chunkier, I can’t recall the metal of his. It doesn’t matter as the ring is individual to the wearer.

Post # 18
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

Ours match in colour terms (although I didn’t feel it was important) but style-wise they’re VERY different. His is chunky and modern (it’s a concave palladium ring) and mine is very delicate and diamond-set.

Post # 19
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175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

They don’t have to match. I prefer white gold and he already has an antique gold ring so while we are going to look for a similar style they will definetly be different colors.

Post # 20
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1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My husband to be has a Tungsten band and I have a white gold band so no they dont have to match that is your decision.

Post # 21
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566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Not at all. At first I wanted our wedding bands to be all matchy matchy, but he was drawn to a band that didn’t have a corresponding women’s style. So in the end we just got what we wanted.

Post # 22
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4581 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

They definitely don’t have to match. What’s important is that you both have rings you love and want to wear forever!

Fiance and I planned to have mismatched rings: I wanted white gold to match my e-ring and he wanted tungsten carbide. In the end, we both wound up with white gold because he found a ring he really loved more than any of the tungsten ones he’d been looking at.

Post # 23
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1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Traditionally they do, but we all know traditional isn’t always best! Feel free to choose what you like – you guys have to wear them, after all.

Post # 25
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre

not at all! they dont have to match! my Fiance ring is Tungsten and mine is rose gold…

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