- 11 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
@prettyflowers: So well said!
My guy went through a phase where he was cranky about me ruining the “surprise.” But dude, we’d been together for four years! He had already moved from halfway around the world to come live with me. Finally he accepted that it was too late to surprise me in that way, due to the reasons you’ve explained.
He still managed to surprise me with the actual proposal, by making up an elaborate scheme with my friends to get me to show up at a special place. I was expecting to meet my friend, and when I saw him standing there instead I nearly fell over with shock. I actually asked him, “What are you doing here?” before I realized that ohhhh, this is it!