(Closed) Question re Wedding Coordinator & Rehearsal

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

Hmm…it would be nice of you to invite her, but I don’t think you’re obligated. I think you’re good either way etiquette-wise.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

It’s nice to extend the invitation but not necessary.  She probably won’t accept anyway if given an easy out as she is already “working” and might appreciate being able to be off earlier.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

I think it would be a sweet gesture, but I don’t think it’s necessary at all.  Typically, the rehearsal meal is an intimate time with close friends/family – not vendors.  Just because she is present at the rehearsal does not mean she’d feel left out if she wasn’t attending the meal afterwards.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I invited ours, it was polite.  She did not come, she said she wouldn’t want to eat on our dime, so that was one nice thing ours did (I have many other complaints about ours).  We also asked the band that played at our wedding and they did show up.

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