- 3 years ago
- Wedding: January 2017
Too Much Information warning. I’m kind of embarrassed to ask these questions but I know you ladies will be able to help me out. 🙂 FI and I chose to save sex until marriage for religious reasons. In the past we’ve faltered a bit in these beliefs and done the “hand stuff,” so we’re kind of familiar with anatomy and that kind of thing (I used the word “virgin” to specify we’ve never had p in v sexual intercourse, I know people have different definitions). Other than that, I’m pretty much clueless. I’ve only ever seen a penis less than a handful of times so I have about the sexual knowledge of some 13 year olds. Any advice is welcome, but I have a few specific questions.
I’ve heard that when you stand up after sex, semen may come out. Is this true? FI has particularly thin semen and so I’m thinking that would probably happen because you know, gravity. What do you do to clean it up? Waddle to the bathroom? Keep tissues by the bed?
Period sex…how messy actually is it?
If I shave down there, will it rub him weird and chafe his skin? I’m more comfortable shaving but I just want to know how it’ll feel for him when we have sex.
This question is especially Too Much Information. Do we still need lube even if I self-lubricate pretty well? If something gets me aroused and I go to the bathroom it is often so much that it drips out. If so, what kind of lube? It seems like there’s a lot to choose from.
I think this is a silly question but I’ll ask anyway, does it hurt when he hits your cervix?
Like I said, any tips that you wish you knew or you think may be helpful are welcome. Thanks, bees!