(Closed) questions on who to invite

posted 8 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@sweetlikcake: I’d say, first make your list of all of the people that you both really want at your wedding. Then, if you still have space, and you want to, invite those other friends.

Some of them may really want to reconnect, and some might just want to be included in the party. But the bottom line is, it’s your and your FI’s wedding, and you should invite those people that are important in your life.

You could always have an A and B list, and put those fair weather friends on the B list.

Congratulations too!

Post # 4
1871 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’d do what drummergirl suggested–at least first figure out how many seats you’re talking about before you start duking it out–you might find out that you have room for everyone and there’s no need to barter. 

But the other thing to consider is that guys tend to be different from girls–they don’t really need to get in touch with each other all the time to maintain friendships. My Darling Husband hardly ever talks to his two best friends (who both live in different states), but gets on like gangbusters when they do see each other, once in a blue moon. 

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