(Closed) Quick vent

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Yep!! I know I would’ve when the time came. 

I hate-seriously hate, hate, hate, hate- part of my immediate family (BF can’t stand them either). I would’ve had to invite them to please my grandmother.  But I’m nipping that right in the bud….going to Hawaii.

I would feel the same way that you do about this wife.  It was strange that even though your Fiance declined they sent the invite after all. Maybe they won’t come after all?  You could’ve “accidently” left her name off too ๐Ÿ™‚ Just kidding

Post # 4
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305 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

it sounds like this girl is controlling everything this guy does…reading your post reminded me of an episode of bridezillas i saw awhile back. the bride on the show hardly let him talk to any of his friends and even made the comment that after they were married he wasn’t allowed to speak to them any more. i wanted to climb through the tv and smack her!

back in october my cousin got married i happened to be home for it. the reasons i was actually home werent good but none the less i was able to to show up to the reception. i almost didn’t go because i thought that i hadn’t been invited. when i said something to my mom about she told me that yes i was invited. i was included in their invitation. i was kind of mad about it. im a grown ass woman who does NOT live with my mom and i havent lived there since i was 18 and joined the navy. im actually already married…we did a quick courthouse thing and were about to have our big wedding. its not a secret….everyone knows that we’re already married. so needless to say i was kind of mad that they couldn’t even send an invitation us instead of including me on my moms. oh well…i got over it and still went to the reception.

Post # 5
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2767 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

yeah, sometimes you just have to be nice though, whether or not it makes sense to!

Post # 6
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with you that seems rude I told people in my wedding that they can bring there signifigant other or a date if they like.

Post # 7
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2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yeah, I can get how you can be annoyed by this.

it sounds like he sent the invite to your Fiance out of courtesy because he said he could fit him in. So many times, especially on the boards, people recommend sending an invite because you never know how plans might change.

Don’t let it get you down!

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