(Closed) Quit having babies!!! Or atleast until after I do.

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I completely understand!  I had a cousin who got married 3 months after me (who is also 10 years younger than me) who got pregnant the month she married!  And I’ve still got until August 2012 before we start TTC because of bills.  GRRR!!!!  My husband even said yesterday “Why does it suddenly feel like there are babies EVERYWHERE?”  I said, “We notice now because we are wanting one….”  Really…all three ladies who work at our apartment complex office just had babies 7-10 weeks ago, one of my closest friends is pregnant, four cousins have had babies over the past year….and though I am happy for all of them, it is driving me nuts!!! 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

OK, I SWEAR, I WON’T! LOL.  I think that vasectomy Darling Husband had will help ALOT with that.

You guys are going to have lots of adorable Hedgie babies, but you can yell at me about it anytime you want, you have certainly listened to all my gripes.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I definitely feel like that once in awhile.  I’m very happy and excited for all the ladies though.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I am just sick of listening to everyone ask us “when are you going to have babies”… ahh just because you jumped off the bridge doesn’t mean we have too.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I feel like that sometimes with friends whom I love and would love if in an ideal world our children could be friends/ a similar age.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ha, I know what you mean. My two best friends had babies this year within 2 months of each other. We still have over a year before we are going to try to get pregnant. I wish it was sooner!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I totally understand! I feel like all my friends are having babies! I’m so happy for them but sometimes I just wan to cry! Plus I feel they won’t be ready for a 2nd by the time we’re ready for our 1st. I don’t want to have babies by ourselves!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I TOTALLY AGREE! We’re TTC now but I feel like every other day I hear of a different friend or relative who is pregnant NOW! The good news, is that we’ll have a lot of playmates around the same age (hopefully) but still….. 🙂

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Aww, it’s definitely normal to feel that way. In my ideal world all my friends and I could be pregnant at the same time, but nope.

 

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

OMG, I swear, there will be at least ten women at my wedding who are pregnant or who will have very recently had babies (like within the past three months).  There’s something in the water, I’m telling you!

Fiance and I are still a few years away from TTC, but it really does seem like babies are just popping out of the woodwork these days.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Haha, that thought definitely crosses my mind on occasion!!! My 2 very best friends had babies in July and October and my sister (4 years younger) and her hubby are expecting a baby in April. Two of my cousins also had babies in the last 6 months. I LOVE being surrounded by all things baby, but it is a little bittersweet since I want kids so badly. I’ve been ready to have a baby for years but Darling Husband isn’t quite ready. He has promised me that can start in April, which is about as much waiting as I can tolerate! Especially because I’m almost 34 and want to have 2-3 kids! I actually asked him tonight if he was feeling closer to being ready and he said yes. I didn’t want to harass him and ask if that means we can start TTC sooner, but I have my fingers crossed!

August 2012 isn’t TOO far away, but I totally know where you are coming from as waiting until April is killing me! 🙂

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

Yes. 😉

It’s irrational and slightly crazy, but it would be really freakin’ nice to be the next one to be knocked up in our social circle.

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