(Closed) Racy Post…Lingerie question.

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Nothing.

 go naked. I bet he’d like that!!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Miss Stellar said exactly what I was going to say!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I guess a racy post warrants a racy response…

What about getting a sexy see-through robe or something that is meant to come off right away?  He might enjoy "unwrapping" you like a wedding present!

Or, what about lingerie that won’t "get in the way" (ie- no cups, no crotch) so that you can keep it on longer.  Like a corset-type thing or crotchless panties or thigh high stockings that clip to the non-underwear belt thing?

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

What Miss Stellar Said! and quietly tell him halfway through the reception… See if THAT dosen’t spice things up!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’d wear some but with the understanding that in 5 seconds or less it’s coming off. I believe that your sex life should be as much about making YOURSELF feel beautiful as well as making him feel good.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Haha rosychicklet, I thought about responding with crotchless panties, too! Glad some one did!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

Hm, I have a bit of a different opinion…

If wearing sexy lingerie makes YOU feel beautiful and sexy – do it!  Lingerie is all about attitude, and if wearing it gives you a sense of sexiness and feminine power, then that’s the attitude that will come through when you wear it. And I’m SURE that attitude will always get your man’s attention. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Rosy & EAQ, I was thinking the same thing– what about crotchless– that way its lingerie that DOESN’T have to come off… he might like that!!!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Maybe you can do body jewels or something… like those little rhinestones you just stick right on your skin. That might be a little different.  I feel you about him not liking it.  My ex was totally not into it and he wouldn’t even notice it. After a while I wondered why I ever wore anything beyond cotton panties since he never even noticed the difference.

I like the idea of wearing thigh highs and no panties though. It’s something and nothing all at the same time.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I also love lingerie. Why dont you talk to him tell him how it makes you feel. Maybe you can meet at a happy medium, maybe a nude color lingerie.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

I agree with wearing if you want to.  It seems like you’ll go into it knowing he might not get too thrilled until it’s in a pile on the floor.  But you should be happy too.  And besides, if you wearing it, puts you in the mood or better mood, he should realize everyone’s a winner at that point.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’ve been trying to figure out this one myself lately- my guy complains that I don’t wear it frequently enough, but he just disregards it or falls asleep like yours does when I do wear it. According to my man (when I asked point-blank) he claimed that "you can’t just wear it and then not do anything". I am taking that as an indication that guys want to be teased when you’re wearing lingirie 😉

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I have one answer.

agent provacateur. (sp?)

Check that out and order away!

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