(Closed) Ramblings of a Bride

posted 6 years ago in Encore
Post # 3
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668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@The Torpedo Factory:  IMO women care way more about the wedding than men, generally speaking. I know that’s certainly true for myself and my fiance. I’ve been planning the entire thing and he’s shown up to help when absolutely neccessary (or when there was free food). Other than that he just doesn’t care. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about getting married, he just doesn’t care about all the details. We’ve discussed it and in his view, once we were officially “engaged” that was it for him. Sealed the deal. 100% comitted. So anything beyond that, to him, is just “girl stuff”.

Post # 4
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I thought may Fiance regretted it too. Then I just spoke with him & he reassured me. I realized ALL these emotions just came pouring out after he proposed & not all are ear to ear happy. I am reading a really great book that helped with the gazillion feelings I have. 

Anytime I feel something is off I say something. 99 percent of the time it’s just me. 🙂 My Fiance will talk basics with me but anything detailed about the wedding I tell my aunt. Lol

Post # 5
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2363 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

My Fiance just can only handle so much wedding talk at one time! I’ve learned to sort of just forge ahead and before making a big exective decision say “what do you think about this, is this ok?” He does kind of care about the “logistics”… timeline, guest list, he really cares about the music and somewhat about the food. But anything decoration/invite/etc is just outside his realm.

Maybe try to just plan on your own a little bit, then show him some things and see how he responds? Eventually you may find out what he cares about as far as plans and what he is fine leaving totally up to you.

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