(Closed) Random: Are you easy to like?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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2775 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

People have told me that I’m very friendly and happy. I like making new friends and meeting people. I’m a nurse so I see new patients on a daily basis, so I guess it’s a plus in my job. I don’t really speak my mind as often as I should though, I don’t like conflict. 🙁 

I’m sorry about you feelings of insecurity. Honestly, I’ve had instances of that as well. I’ve met some people that intimidate me very much and I couldn’t bring myself to talk to them as I would normally do. Now they’re very close friends of mine and I can’t even think why I was so intimidated in the first place!

Post # 4
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347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have a hard looking exterior (read: bitch face) but once people get past that, I think I’m pretty easy to like.  I’ve never really had a problem making friends.  I’m pretty shy though so unless I get put in a situation where I have to make friends (first day of school/work etc.) I think I would have a problem starting conversations.  I have a handfull of close friends and other than that, I don’t care much about making other friends though.  

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think I’m easy to LIKE, as in….at first. I’m open and (I think) funny and come off as very sweet/motherly. I do think that after a while it becomes either “You like me or you don’t.” There isn’t much of a middle ground with me in my friendships. I have no patience for the petty bs so I usually cut that out of my life without the blink of an eye. After a bottle of wine (lol) I may be like, “Hm, I wonder if I should have handled that differently?” But usually my answer is no.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yes. I do believe I am. Or at least everyone I know honestly tells me I am. I am not a God sent but I am a nice person, warm, giving & caring. I like to listen to peoples problems, help them solve them or give them advice. I help people when I can – example I give things away to other who need them more than I do. I don’t want a cookie or award for it & normally I never tell anyone to make myself look good – But this is weddingbee, so I feel it is okay! 🙂

But I am not a push over.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Take The Reins:  I guess because it’s something new and unknown, you don’t know how these people will react to you as a person.

Well, if it’s any consolation, I’m meeting you online and I like you! :):):)

 

Post # 11
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1370 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

 Like AmeliaBedelia, I think I’m likeable at first. I’m quiet and very sweet. I giggle a lot and I see the humor in things. It’s not fake or put on at all. I genuinely love to laugh. But especially over time I have a personality and ways of doing things that some people just don’t mesh with. There’s nothing wrong with that! I’m not at a bitch but I’m not at all apologetic for my opinions either.

Oh! Because I’m quiet/shy I guess I give off a bitch vibe but upon speaking to me most people seem to like me. So I’m not sure how to answer that now.

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Also I have a harder time meeting new people as well! Because I am SUPER shy. So I may seem rude to new people, but I am just super shy & don’t know what to say!

Post # 13
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2775 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Take The Reins:  Not sad at all! I know it’s just an online forum but I like to think of the Bees as my friends that I haven’t met yet!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@KeeKalena:  I can vouch that you are easy to like! 

I hope I am! I try to remember to be friendly with everyone but then again it’s somewhat part of my job to be sociable. However I do only keep a few good friends but that is because I’ve been badly burned in the past & I don’t really trust as much as I used to. I do avoid confrontation so even with people that get on my nerves I just put up with it for the little bit of time I have to spend with them.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Ms. Martian:  Oh Disney Princess, you are such a sweetheart. I can also vouch that you are very likeable and generous! When we first met, we just started conversating so easily!

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