(Closed) Random person invited to my Bridal Shower?!?!?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We weren’t expecting plus ones at the bridal shower. Sorry!

Or, I was really hoping to keep it intimate with people my fiance or I am close with.

You have every right to ask her to keep her friend at home. There is no reason she needs to bring someone with her.

Post # 4
5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree with afuturemrs! you could always throw out there that really only people who are invited to the wedding are invited to the shower. lol

Post # 5
16191 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Weird! Who is hosting this bridal shower?

Post # 6
7295 posts
Busy Beekeeper

ya i would tell her you have to check in with the host, and then get back to her and say you and the host prefer to keep it to only people you know, who are invited to the wedding. etc etc.

Post # 7
238 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

LOL our engagement party host is inviting friends that we (FH and I) don’t know, so I guess this happens more often than I thought! Maybe she would feel more comfortable with a friend if she doesn’t know a lot of people there?

But I’m with @PurpleUnicorn just let her know that you’d prefer people who are invited to the wedding – a bit awkward otherwise.

The topic ‘Random person invited to my Bridal Shower?!?!?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors