@Hyperventilate: I’m more of an, “It’s our wedding” type person. So while he does have a few things that are important to him, I want us to be able to compromise rather than have an element of the wedding I hate. While I’m not a video game or FF nerd, I don’t dislike the costume, and I think if it’s done well it would be an interesting twist. As much as I love the idea of my SO in a well-tailored tux, he’s not much of a tux guy, you know?
@SincerelyShe: Lol. We don’t really have a “theme.” It’s more just random elements that we like that we’re tossing together. The closest we wil have to a theme is wedding colors! And I think if I told my SO it was my wedding, he’d just be like, “Ok. Then you pay for it!” And then I’d be stuck cause he’s the one who works while I go to school. XD
@ekizuna: I love the Phoenix Down idea- I wil definitely mention that to him as soon as I get home from school!! And the fanfare idea is really cute (probably not something I would do, but I still like it!)
@happyface: This is definitely an interesting way to put it. I’m not planning to have a traditional wedding dress, so why should he have to wear a traditional tux?
@doorstopper: He’d probably try to figure out a way to tell our grandchildren that the character of the game was actually based on him or something!
@Mrs.babycat: I really hope I’m not being snarky here, but I don’t think it’s anymore childish than a bride wanting to be a princess for a day. If I get to be a princess, why shouldn’t he get to be a video game character? It is his day too.
@cwedding14: “Allowing him the song”? He gets just as much say in these things as I do. Yeah, I’d put a stop to anything I absolutely didn’t like, but I’d hope we could both come to a compromise that would make us both happy.I’m not being nice; I’m trying to make him happy on our day and give him just as much say as I have. 🙂 I apologize if I’m overreacting to your comment, it just sounded to me like an implication that he doesn’t get any say in something unless I give it to him.
@HelleCat: We’d probably have his aunt make the suit if she makes my wedding dress, so I know we could pay for quality fabric since she wouldn’t charge us for labor. But that definitely is a good point for me to keep in mind! And I’d love to see a picture of Zelda’s dress! I’m curious now!
To everyone: honestly, this is probably a passing fancy of his and he’ll change his mind a dozen times before we really start wedding planning, just like I will; I’m just curious about how other brides would respond.