- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
1) I am having a formal affair and want to avoid anyone showing up too casual (I live in the south). Is it appropriate to put Black Tie Optional so that they get the hint, or is there other standard verbiage that is used?
2) Can my groomsmen serve as ushers?
3) Is it appropriate for my fiance and I to give a speech at the rehearsal dinner my in laws are hosting? What about the wedding?
4) Is it customary to announce everyone in the wedding party at the reception including my fiance’s grandmother who will be seated at the ceremony?