(Closed) ****RANT*****

posted 4 years ago in Home
Post # 3
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994 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That doesn’t look that bad. In fact, it could be my bathroom! Lighten up!

Post # 4
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525 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

My FI is the same way.  He also disrobes wherever he happens to be and just leaves his clothes (including dirty socks) wherever.  It annoys the crap out of me.  (Also he opens pantries, drawers, etc. but doesn’t shute them!!! annoying as all heck)

Post # 5
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2381 posts
Buzzing bee

I don’t think it looks horrible either. Cluttered yes, but not gross. Our bathroom looks the same. 

Post # 6
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5773 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Looks like my bathroom, if I’m just going to use it again why would I put it away?

Post # 7
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5554 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Well, I was exspecting much worse than that. By your same thought, he is 28, if you can exspect him to be ocd for you, why can he not exspect you to be okay with the fact he isnt and his side of the sink doesn’t bother him?

Post # 8
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495 posts
Helper bee

He should close his toothpaste lid  and hang up his towel so it doesn’t get mildewy, but otherwise that is a perfectly normal level of bathroom clutter.

I mean, it’s not what we have, but it would in no way gross me out or bother me if I saw that when visiting someone else’s home.

Post # 9
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710 posts
Busy bee

Is that his bobby pin?

(Couldn’t resist! Fellow OCD-gal here!)

But seriously. I’d take that any day over most men’s bathroom situations.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Haha my DH is messy by nature too. But the first step to solving a problem is admitting you HAVE a problem … and DH has thankfully come to terms with the fact that he is a very messy man 😛  So he’s gotten much better about cleaning up!

Post # 11
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7200 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Could be a lot worse….

Post # 12
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491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Looks normal to me. I am the messy one and my FI is super clean. We have tried to come to a compromise. He is tolerant of some mess and I try to pick up my stuff a bit more and I clean up all my own mess. 

If that bathroom is your biggest problem, you are probably doing fine!

Post # 13
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437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Hahaha that’s not HORRIBLE, but I feel your pain! My SO can’t be bothered to do ANY cleaning…clothes everywhere, never takes the trash out, kitchen is only ever cleaned by me…ughhhhhhh. 

Post # 14
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

It’s cluttered, but not nasty. Nasty is toothpaste oozing over everything. You haven’t seen a nasty bathroom until you’ve cleaned your teenage brothers bathroom (which paid very well b/c of how gross it always was).

Also, is he really expected to put all of his stuff in a basket under the sink? I keep most of my stuff under the sink or in a drawer, but I couldn’t imagine having to get out my brush, deodorant, soap, toothbrush, toothpaste, etc. at least once a day. I think those items should be stored on the countertop because of how frequently they are used.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MommaJenn28:  Haha, if only my FI would leave his sink as clean as that! FI works in construction. Every night he comes home and takes a shower, emtying his pockets on the counter and dropping his dirty clothes on the floor of the bathroom. I can’t tell you how many nuts, screws, bolts, bits, etc etc etc he leaves everywhere.

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