(Closed) Rant

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Umm people are already asking me when the babies are coming. I think people assume that others only get married to reproduce!!

Post # 4
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Typical 🙂 

Our whole lives are dictated by perceived stages, so its all there is to talk about & expect.

 

Post # 5
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2815 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

it’s totally normal…and tiring. lol I feel bad for people who dont want kids. It must get irritating!

 

heck, we have an 8 month old and people are already asking us when we’re having another! Good grief!

Post # 6
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3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’ve also started getting emails from thenest.com

Post # 7
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1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I cannot stand this! It’s all coming from FI’s family and all friends.  My family does not do this.  It is extremely annoying.  Is there nothing else to talk about?  Not only that but I have some insecurities about my age and if I will even be able to conceive so it makes me uncomfortable. 

Post # 9
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272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Just smile and say “none of ‘yo beeswax!” 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Yes, people started asking us right away.  And, I have gained a few pounds and had a few people think I was pregnant and ask me about it.  Awesome.

 

 

(NOT)

Post # 11
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141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Isn’t that weird?? I still don’t understand why people think that marriage = instant baby. It’s not like your ovaries don’t work until you get married! lol! We’ve been married a bit over a year and we got it A LOT at first from family. I wanted to smack everyone! Mind yer bizness! Luckily most of my friends couldn’t care less when I have one :p

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hah, yes! Worst of all is DH’s best friend who REALLY wants a baby. He’s already got a projected due date based off a honeymoon baby. Not happening!

Families are all doing the same. I’d take that over “How’s married life?” any day. I’m still not sure how to answer that one.

Post # 13
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@redheadem:  Yes! Someone I know actually got offended when I told them that people do still get married for love when she asked if I was pregnant. Its crazy.

Post # 14
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@thursdayschild:  We lived together before marriage so when people ask me that I’m just like “Uh…the same as it was before?” and that kind of ends the conversation. I don’t get what was magically supposed to change after the wedding. 

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I get it from both family and friends already (and have been for a while now!).  I’m only 27!  My fiance is only 25!  Chill out, we’ll have  aby when we’re ready!

So yeah, I agree.  REALLY annoying!

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