(Closed) *RANT*

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Ninteenthchance:  Well he better get on it while he still has a job, or he likely won’t be approved for the place…

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

It sounds like you should take care of you and make sure your living situation isn’t contingent on him getting his act together. If he’s not responsible enough to take care of his own living situation, why would you want to move in with him?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@geekspice:  +1. I say you should find a place you can afford by yourself for now. Don’t depend on him for it. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

As a former Cville resident myself, I wanted to say good luck! Start calling complexes now to check availability and tell your SO what you find.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@Ninteenthchance:  Would you be able to transfer credits so you could go to a college closer to your parents? I know we can do this in Canada with minimal difficulty, but idk how it is in the USA.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@Ninteenthchance:  Hmm, if a semester there is like a semester here (four months), then I would say to grab an apartment by yourself if your SO isn’t willing to do anything about it. Like you said, you have plenty of savings, so try and use them for the apartment for four months, and see if he gets his act together by then. 

Or you could always explain the situation to your community college and try and delay the semester until next year, and get a part-time job to help pay for an apartment. I do full-time school and have a part-time job, and I know I couldn’t do both if I had a child. I would say if you could delay the graduation by one semester, then do it. It’s better than having no place to live. That, or use your savings.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@Ninteenthchance:  Good luck, sincerely. I hope things go well and your SO realizes that it isn’t just you who will suffer from lack of housing, but also your child. -hug-

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