- 4 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
I am so lucky to have the best friend that I do. Not only is she amazingly giving and thoughtful, she is constantly making sure that I am happy. She is not only my best friend, she is my daughters godmother and since we are so close (even my husband and her fiancé are best friends!) 2 months after we bought our house the house next door to us went up for sale, we told them since they were looking and they bought it! I get to see her every day and she’s a huge part of mine and my daughter’s life.
Here comes the rant: she and her fiancé got engaged in March and since day one I have been helping with everything I can get my hands on! I love wedding planning and helping her makes it even better. She has mostly family in her wedding party and she chose me as her MOH! the problem is She NEVER wants to do anything for the wedding. It’s like pulling teeth. I found the venue and we went to look at it together (I swear everyone we meet think we are getting married) and other than that it’s been so hard to get her to do anything! I have to drag her out the door to go pick out a wedding band, followed her around her house for an hour just asking her questions on how she wanted to decorate and her reply was “do we have to talk about wedding stuff right now?”, I helped her fiancé pick out and order his wedding band, designed the save the dates, decorated 40 mason jars after begging her to tell me which way she wanted them to look and much more. I understand that it’s her wedding and I don’t want to stress her out but the wedding is in October and she won’t pick out anything for the guys to wear! They have 8 groomsmen plus her fiancé, and she has no idea. Any time I suggest we look or talk about it she changes the subject. I literally have to drive places with her in the car and not tell her were going in orsee to get anything done. I know that if I don’t force her to do it now she will be a complete mess stressing on every last detail the week before the wedding.
I’m not angry or even upset at her for it, it is HER wedding. I just wanto her to be stress free and enjoy the wedding.
I’m not really asking for advice or even a reply. I just feels so good to get this off my chest!
*i realize after re reading this it sounds like she doesn’t want to get married, but seriously everyday she just keeps saying “can the wedding be today?” And I have to say “no, we haven’t even finished planning it!” Lolol I love this girl to death but can a Maid/Matron of Honor get a little help? Ha
Rant over 🙂 I feel better