(Closed) RANT-Can't catch a break

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper

Sorry boo! Here’s a dog to make you smile.

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Report the welfare fraudsters and move out and get your own place with your fi.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

Wait so how did your Fiance find out they have been lying on their taxes?

Otherwise suck it up (your MIL’s house = MIL’s rules even if that is her letting Future Brother-In-Law walk all over her) or move out. 

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper

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Bio_Chemist:  You do know it is illegal for him to do that right? It is an abuse of power. I hate people who defraud the government as much as the next person but what your Fiance did is so totally inappropriate it is not funny.  At best your Fiance could lose his job and any case against your Future Brother-In-Law dismissed and at worst he can be charged.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

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Bio_Chemist:  I would move. You say it’s been 6 months — how much longer do you plan to be there? Seriously, I’d find a short-term furnished apartment or something. 6 months is no longer “emergency.” My first summer back home after college, I couldn’t take being under the same roof as my alcoholic mom and abusive stepdad anymore, so I moved. It was hard. Like REAL hard. I was 18, no car, no license even. I moved in with some married friends who kept trying to talk me into a 3-some. The house had no gas, but came with 2 huge slobbery untrained dogs. It was horrible, but I made the decision that it was my best option. There are always options. I’m sorry yours seem to be pretty shitty at the moment and hope you can find something a little less shitty. Or if you decide this is the best option, maybe start a countdown chain to when you can leave?

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I would not be marrying into this. End of Story. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

Is there no one else you guys could stay with? This may not be a suggestion you like, but I would consider finding a place to stay for just you and your dogs. Obviously you don’t want to start your marriage living apart, but that home is toxic and dangerous. If your Fiance wants to put up with it because it’s his family, fine, but there’s no reason you have to suffer too. Move into a safe environment and when moving becomes an option in a few months you guys can move back in together.

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