(Closed) Rant: I am starting to get tired of people getting married that are not me.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1681 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@gangqinjia:  Ahhh! I can only imagine you’re stress. I can’t relate, but you have every reason to rant on wb 🙂

Post # 4
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I really enjoyed being engaged. It’s a nice feeling. Just desktop thinking about what others are doing. 

Post # 5
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

:/ *stop. Darn autocorrect 

Post # 6
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1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

I get jealous, too! My engagement time is 9 months, and I’ve had a friend who got engaged after me and married before me… and I was jealous for some reason. I stopped and thought, “You know, planning hasn’t been too stressful yet… I can’t imagine what it must be like for someone who was engaged a month.. Lucky I’m not her. 😉 “

Post # 7
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31 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I know exactly how you feel! I’ve felt really petty whenever I’ve gotten bent out of shape about it, so it’s nice to hear that someone else feels the same way. We got engaged in April of 2011, but decided on a two year engagement to wait until my fiance graduated with his Bachelor’s Degree. Since then, both of my fiance’s YOUNGER brothers got engaged and married. Did I mention that they also started dating my FSILs after H2Be and I started dating? AND to add insult to injury, one tried to take our date only in 2012, but ultimately decided to get married the week before. The other decided that Vegas was the perfect venue for their wedding after we told the whole family that we were having a destination wedding in Vegas! I know that I don’t own Vegas or the month of May, but it would’ve been nice to have had something about our wedding be different and special.

Rant aside, I’m a lot better now that we’re just a few months out from our wedding. I’ve had plenty of time to plan every detail and I know that it’s going to be an epic weekend. Plus, at the end of the day, I’m marrying my best buddy. That’s all that matters, right?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@gangqinjia:  It’s only a few more months. I feel like I don’t have enough time left and my date is 2 weeks after yours. I am starting to feel real pressured.

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