(Closed) Rant (Oh Forgive Me I’m a Horrible Person)

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2814 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I give you a standing ovation for this!

Post # 4
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

True friends would never condescend… just saying : )

If a “friend” judges you… they are not really a friend and they probably never really were.

The thing is… there comes a point (usually in your 20’s) where high school friends sometimes show their true colors once life really starts happening.  At that point you figure out what you want in your life and what you don’t.  I think this is very common.

Post # 5
2259 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Huzzah, these sound like people I know… congrats on your way to finding new and better friends! It’s very annoying and I agree with you! :/ 

Post # 6
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hmm.. sounds like a lot of DH’s and my friends.  Most of our friends are all like that and all have atleast one child and many of them are currently pregnant again.  I don’t even like hanging out with them anymore because the topic of conversation is babies and when are we having babies because apparently it’s not “normal” that we’ve been married one and a half years and are not pregnant yet! 

Post # 7
7289 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011


Most those people get their bubble bursted somewhere down on the line 😉

I hear ya on doing things in your own time and getting crap from the peanut gallery.

Post # 8
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Being someone who has never done anything “traditional” in my life, I differently know were you are coming from….It suck, because true friends are something that is pretty hard to find.

Post # 9
2691 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I know exactly what you’re saying!

I had to leave college because of financial circumstances and now I’m planning on getting married and my friends (who are still in college, away from home) think that I’m absolutely insane.

I don’t care that my life isn’t like yours, thank you.

Post # 10
7605 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I smiled at “gag me with a plastic spoon”. 🙂

Post # 11
1748 posts
Bumble bee

@Stace126: I have never been a fan of planning everything in life. I have had a good life, it is great when you alllow it to happen in an organic way. Why do I have to follow all of these boring sets of rules when the way I live my life is a true expression of Soladylike and I have peace. Amen.

Post # 12
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

Applause, my friend!

I had friends like this, and now we’re all just FB friends and nothing more, because I couldn’t handle them.


Post # 13
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Pinksapphire: I could not agree more. They are the people I like to refer to as the “Jones”. I have decided to just live for me and noone else. I think everyone has a few friends that they can put in that category.

Post # 14
255 posts
Helper bee

Ha excuse my language but F*c***g hooray for this post!

Post # 15
7770 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

A “perfect life” never interested me.  Makes for vapid soul.

If they are critical of you, they have an over-inflated sense of self.  Be proud that your life is interesting.

Also, I don’t know anyone who was engaged that young!

Post # 16
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@cbee: I think a young engagement (and I’m guessing a lot of things described in the OP’s post) are small-town things. I know many, many people like this.

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