- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
I’ve actively been posting on this site since July, however I’ve been a voyeur for over a year, in fact, if not for this site I wouldn’t have located my ceremony/reception space. So, I was definitely excited to start posting. However, I cannot help, but feel slightly annoyed at some of the snarkiness I’ve seen, directed towards me & others. I’ve actually felt that I shouldn’t post valid thoughts/questions because I don’t want to read resppnses with a negative tone that aren’t really helpful anyway.
When I post on someone’s thread, I’m always complimentary or I give my opinion in a nice manner, the way it should be. No need to be accusatory, judgemental, badgering, inconsiderate, disrespectful, insert unladylike adjective here. We obviously all have an opinion & if someone asks for yours, kick out your soapbox & be kind. Rudeness involves some level of emotion, which is unnecessary as we don’t know each other & all have a common interest, weddings [read: that beautiful happy day that starts the beginning of some kind of awesomeness].
With that, smile when you type, it may change the outcome. Create a great day!