Post # 1
So, my last post was closed. I’m sorry about the rant. I saw several similar threads on google, and didn’t realize it was a violation of the site to reference another chat board in the way I was. SORRY!! :$
Changing topic now…
@mjwyatt84: I was in the middle of replying to your question about the dilemma I posted on TK:
I found out my bridesmaid was cheating on my groomsman, and that she was leaving him. During one of my late night rounds of insomnia, I had the thought pop in my head that if things between them got ugly it might create awkwardness while prepping, at the rehearsal, and at the wedding. Then I got concerned about what would happen if I ended up needing to ask one of them to step down. I googled “cheating bridesmaid groomsman” and just read horror story after horror story of people who had lost some of their closest friends because of very similar situations that just spiraled out of control. It freaked me out, so I posted asking for either advice on what to do if things started to get bad (so that I don’t lose either of my friends, but I don’t have to get tangled into any fighting at the same time) or even just something to ease my mind. :/
Post # 3
I totally creeped on your post at TK because I’m sketchy that way .
However, I could tell you put it in a wedding framework because you were trying to stay on topic. In other words, I could tell you were framing your question around “weddings” when you were really asking, “What can I do to help them?”
If I got that, I’m sure other people did as well.
Personally I’m a fan of WB because once any hostility is detected, the thread is usually shut down. I know that sours other people, but I’m appreciative because I hate negativity. Positivity on a forum is hard to find, and I’m very happy to find it thrives on WB.
Post # 4
@BeachBride2014: I don’t want to get in their personal business, but I also don’t want to have my friendship with either of them damaged because of what’s going on. Admittedly, my original post was sort of dry, but I tried to add more details as posters spoke up.
I don’t like negavitiy as well. The whole reason I posted the initial rant was that I couldn’t stop feeling angry over some of the things I had seen, and I was hoping if I got it off my chest I’d let it go. I really hate it when negativity like that starts to rub off on me. >.<
It did help to hear from some people on here. Thanks to everyone who posted on my earlier thread.