- 2 years ago
And for the craziest of them all.
My boyfriend’s third best friend’s wife. We will call her J.
J and my bf’s mom works together. So about seven years ago when he was single, his mom told him that there was a girl who she worked with that thought he was cute and wanted to meet him. So he met her at the movies and said hell no im not attracted to this girl at all. That was their first and last date, no kiss no hug no holding hands, nothing but a movie and that’s it.
Unfortunately she liked him so she started hanging out with his mom and got acquainted with his friends. One of his best friends said he thought she was cute and my bf said go for it because I have no interest in her. So they went on dates, eventually moved in together and had a baby and got married, now the first crazy flag for my bf was when he went to visit their baby at the hospital after it was born and she said to him that she wished it was his baby.
Out of pure shock he pretended like he didn’t hear it and since her husband (his best friend) wasn’t in the room, he just left it go, his friend absolutely loves her so he didn’t want to ruin a marriage plus maybe he thought she was just loopy from the meds. Fast forward to when I met her for the first time, she introduces herself and within ten minutes tells me that her and my boyfriend once dated. (I’m thinking one date doesn’t mean dated but whatever).
Then she gets my number because our sons are the same age. I go to her house every Wednesday and every time, she talks about my bf all the time, like no matter what we are talking about she somehows adds him in the mix. Idk why I keep going over there, I think I’m flattered that she likes him so much. Everybody tells me that she does the same thing when they hang out with her, she just can’t stop talking about him and she knows so much about him because of her husband being best friends with him.
She tells me that the only reason her and my bf didn’t work out was because my bf at the time didn’t want a relationship and she did. Well when I told him she said that, he and his mom told me that he’s always been a relationship guy and that he told her that to avoid telling her that he didn’t like the way she looked.
Also she’s a huge liar, every time she tells me a story, I fact check with my bf and his friends. And they all tell me the truth which is usually what she said but the characters in the story are switched to make her look better. Sometimes the stories are completely made up lol. She also showed me a picture of his ex fiancé and likes to bring her up a lot too. She’s obviously jealous because she wants him and is stuck with the next best thing (his best friend) and bringing up how happy they used to be is supposed to make me mad at him
So I finally told her one day that I didn’t appreciate her always talking about my bf and that they didn’t date, they just simply went to the movies once and that was it and I also told her that he wasn’t attracted to her which is why he was more than happy to hand her over to his friend. She’s very upset and told me to leave her house. Once I left she texted me telling me that she was going kick my ass 😂😏🙄