(Closed) rape by a "friend"

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I haven’t been in a similar situation, but I’m so sorry it happend to you, and I hope you reported it to the police.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

I am so sorry this happened to you. But a friend would never do this to another friend so definately try to stop referring to him as that. He was never your friend just a creep you had the misfortune to know.

Could you try to find out if there are any support groups in your local area? There are also a few online forums that are specifically to support people who have experienced rape.

 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

Hi there,

My name is Kate, I am training to be a psychologist (Post Grad). I will send you an post in a few minutes with some phone numbers of helplines. What area are you in?

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@katepoppy:  

Back again- Try this website- I believe that they have ‘online help’ for rape victims. Good Luck, and please don’t be alone right now. Go and talk to someone that you trust.  

http://www.rainn.org

Hugs

Kate

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

There are no words for how much that sucks. That’s something no one should ever have to live with.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Not rape, but I was taken advantage of back in high school by someone I considered a friend at the time. Feel free to PM me. I don’t know how much help I can be, but I’m available to talk to if you’d like.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@bello624:  I was raped by a guy I had been dating off/on for 6 years. You can PM me if you’d like and talk. I was gonna head to sleep but I’ll stay up. 🙂 *hugs* Also rainn.org and I can come up with many more given a bit. I’m really sorry. I’m actually just going to PM you.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

I am so sorry. Such terrible betrayal.

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

How awful! I wish I had words that could take this all away and make this incident in your past go away, but I don’t, I can only offer my support and send love your way.

 

I am so sorry that we as women live in a world were (some) men believe that this is acceptable.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I am so sorry you went through that. I think the most important thing to remember is that this is not your fault. The person who hurt you is a sick, low, disgusting person and you did nothing to deserve this.

I was raped by a guy that I trusted – I didn’t know him very well, but I was young and trusted him simply because I was so naive. There’s a great list of resources here that might be helpful for you http://pandys.org/forums/index.php?s=c82dc4c34fd5e2dc4210f3c83de206c5&showforum=42

That website I just posted also offers online forum support for people who have been raped – I found it really handy when I was working through what happened to me.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

I;m sorry hun. How terrible- and terribly common from what I hear 🙁

I hope you can heal ok!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

Please seek professional help. These are two hotlines than can support/advise you. http://www.thehotline.org/ and https://ohl.rainn.org/online/.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

 

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh my I am so sorry this happened to you. Hugs

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