Post # 1
Hey ladies, I was given a date rape drug by a guy that I had considered a friend in college. Has anyone else been raped by someone that they had trusted like a friend? In need of someone to talk to. I realize this is a very sensitive issue so pm me if necessary, I just need someone to talk to who has been in a similar situation. lots of love bees
Post # 3
I haven’t been in a similar situation, but I’m so sorry it happend to you, and I hope you reported it to the police.
Post # 4
I am so sorry this happened to you. But a friend would never do this to another friend so definately try to stop referring to him as that. He was never your friend just a creep you had the misfortune to know.
Could you try to find out if there are any support groups in your local area? There are also a few online forums that are specifically to support people who have experienced rape.
Post # 5
My name is Kate, I am training to be a psychologist (Post Grad). I will send you an post in a few minutes with some phone numbers of helplines. What area are you in?
Post # 6
Back again- Try this website- I believe that they have ‘online help’ for rape victims. Good Luck, and please don’t be alone right now. Go and talk to someone that you trust.
Post # 7
There are no words for how much that sucks. That’s something no one should ever have to live with.
Post # 8
Not rape, but I was taken advantage of back in high school by someone I considered a friend at the time. Feel free to PM me. I don’t know how much help I can be, but I’m available to talk to if you’d like.
Post # 9
@bello624: I was raped by a guy I had been dating off/on for 6 years. You can PM me if you’d like and talk. I was gonna head to sleep but I’ll stay up. 🙂 *hugs* Also rainn.org and I can come up with many more given a bit. I’m really sorry. I’m actually just going to PM you.
Post # 10
I am so sorry. Such terrible betrayal.
Post # 11
How awful! I wish I had words that could take this all away and make this incident in your past go away, but I don’t, I can only offer my support and send love your way.
I am so sorry that we as women live in a world were (some) men believe that this is acceptable.
Post # 12
I am so sorry you went through that. I think the most important thing to remember is that this is not your fault. The person who hurt you is a sick, low, disgusting person and you did nothing to deserve this.
I was raped by a guy that I trusted – I didn’t know him very well, but I was young and trusted him simply because I was so naive. There’s a great list of resources here that might be helpful for you http://pandys.org/forums/index.php?s=c82dc4c34fd5e2dc4210f3c83de206c5&showforum=42
That website I just posted also offers online forum support for people who have been raped – I found it really handy when I was working through what happened to me.
Post # 13
So embarrassed to have posted such a personal thing on such a public forum , but I have moved across the country for my job and am by myself out here about a thousand miles from home so I really appreciate your comments and support like you have NO idea. This is such a unique and amazing group of ladies that I literally have never felt safe telling anyone this except all of you. Tha ks for all your thoughtful responses
Post # 14
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
I;m sorry hun. How terrible- and terribly common from what I hear 🙁
I hope you can heal ok!
Post # 15
- Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium
Please seek professional help. These are two hotlines than can support/advise you. http://www.thehotline.org/ and https://ohl.rainn.org/online/.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Post # 16
Oh my I am so sorry this happened to you. Hugs