(Closed) Rational vs. Emotional

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1405 posts
Bumble bee

In one of your posts yesterday you talked about #5 and said you were ok.  Less than 24 hours pass and you are back at questioning everything again?  I think you need to do what you said you were going to do a few days ago and take a big break from WB.  This is now obsessing in my book.  Just my 2 cents.

Post # 4
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Worker bee

Ohhhh I do this all the time too! I pick out a bunch of “signals” from my boyfriend that wind up with me thinking an engagement is coming (I am currently doing this with NYE even though I am trying not to get my hopes up.) But then when all my signals that I thought for sure pointed to a proposal don’t result in anything, I am left wondering if they were created by my own imagination…

 

As a side note, I find it very frustrating when my boyfriend tells me to “relax, it’ll happen.” All I wanna do when he says that is scream “BUT WHEN?!”

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You could be picking up on clues or totally over analyzing the situation. Maybe like PP stated, take a break from WB or find other activities/hobbies to help fill the time. You might also want to try wearing a rubber band or hair band around your wrist. If you start to wonder about the proposal, snap the band on your wrist. That may help get the thought out of your mind. Temporarily though.

Hang in there!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

not sure- it could be both over analyzing or really into the clues. keep us updated, I want to know what happens- maybe NYE is it for you but don’t set that in your heart.

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