1. Assuming that this is just resentment about the wedding being delayed.
You are marrying a man not a wedding. It’s the wedding ceremony that is important not the rest of the event. Remember that the guest list, the dress, the trinkets, the meal, the dance, the bridesmaids, the maid of honour, the outfits, the confetti, the glitz, and glamour are not essential to marrying a wonderful man.
If you are marrying the person you consider to be the most wonderful man in the world why do you need to be jealous of anyone else? Other people can have the most ostentious and impressive event but the men that they are marrying will merely be second best.
The important thing is not when you marry but the fact that you do marry. Okay, wedding plans have been delayed but maybe your new date is the right time, when you are both ready to be married.
2. Assuming that there is some other cause of the way you are feeling.
If there are issues of broken promises, debt, giving up a job without consulting you then you need to talk to your Fiance about this. It is important that you trust each other and that you consult each other about everything in future. Once you are married you are a team in every way.
3. Assuming that the fairytale wedding is achievable.
Make sure that this is a fairytale wedding not only for you but your future husband. What elements would he like to take place during the day? Are there things that he could organise?
4. Assuming that the fairytale wedding is a myth
Concentrate on your wedding ceremony. Choose a few things that you really would like to go well e.g. lovely dress, tasty meal, friends and family around you. If these go well the rest won’t seem as important.