(Closed) Really……

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
550 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My mother was acting the same way AGAIN as she did when I planned my first wedding.  Making it all about her. This time I’m old enough to be hip to her reindeer games.  She as well as my FIL’s found our destination wedding an inconvenience to them. I was okay with her not coming to the wedding and that was the stance I took. She kept asking why was I making such a big deal and that I shuld just go to the courthouse and on and on. She went behind my back and called Fiance to have him talk to me to change plans.  All because it didn’t coincide with her planned vacation.  I have found since then that she’s done quite a few unforgivable things so now that we’re having a local wedding she is not invited. I would be worried all day about what she would do. It’s not worth the stress or frustration. THE ONLY reason I agreed to change the location was because I didn’t want to be the reason FI’s parents didn’t go to the wedding. It’s his first (and last dagnabit) and I didn’t want that over my head and over our marriage.

Do what is best for you and Fiance.

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