(Closed) Really?!

posted 7 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I let it go or send her a message?
    Let it go! : (32 votes)
    100 %
    Send her a message. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    That sounds like that one movie that I can’t think of the name right now…

    Umm, if she and your Fiance grew up together, I could see why she would want to be invited. I would just send her a message and apologize for not being able to invite her. Blame it on your venue’s size restrictions or something.

    Post # 4
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I’d let it go.  She sounds like she’s looking for attention and by sending her a message you’re feeding into that. 

    Post # 6
    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    @jo.lee: Cruel Intentions

    Post # 7
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @jerkamuffin: Thanks! That was going to bug me all day.


    @Karina27: Then that is indeed very odd. Probably best to just ignore her!

    Post # 8
    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Yeah this siuation sounds a little like that movie Cruel Intentions with Reese Witherspoon. LOL. But in all seriousness, ignore her for now. She clearly just wants attention. I am in the same boat. We wanted a smaller intimate wedding for budget purposes and we had to cut some people from the list. It happens! Hopefully she will understand. If she keeps bugging your Fiance about it though, you might want to send her a message.

    Post # 9
    1137 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think you should leave it up to your Fiance. He received the message in the first place, and he should respond to her if he feels it’s necessary. 

    Post # 10
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If you send her a message what are you planning to say in the message?? I say either invite her or let it go. Let Fiance deal with it since it is his step sis

    Post # 13
    1876 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I like how you explain the definition of step-sister:

    “So my Fiance gets home from his job and he informs me that he got a message from his step sister, which really the only way they were truly related is because his mother married the step sisters father.”

    LOL. I think we all understand what a step-sibling is.

    But anyways, I think your Fiance should say something. She contacted him right? Then he’s the one that should talk to her and just say I’m sorry but we’re keeping the guest list small.

    Post # 14
    10851 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Ugh she sounds like DH’s stepmother with the guilt trip, victim tone. It seriously makes me want to punch someone. Let your Fiance handle this and just say what he needs to say. You stay out of this, it’s not your relationship with her.

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