(Closed) really confused

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think it was strange. Especially if she is considering adding you. She needs to make up her mind and THEN include you in on things.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Yeah that’s reaaallllly awkward!  She really needs to make up her mind…

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yeah, that’s just rude. If you’re not going to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man (which is reasonable- I mean, you can’t have ALL of your friends be BMs), then she shouldn’t involve you in those activities.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Definitely awkward.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MissMaryMc:  Agreed. And she needs to not be cryptic about adding someone in front of you. Seems like drama for no good reason.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t think I would have gone if I were you. What, was it like a trial run to see if you were bridesmaid material? Sounds fishy to me.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I would talk to her. Say that you’d love to be involved in her wedding, but if you are not a bridesmaid that you will be unable to attend any bridal party specific events, though you are very excited to attend the wedding.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Weird. She should not have done any of that.

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

So weird!  I would have been so uncomfortable!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Thats just awkward. I’d flat out say something to her.

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