(Closed) Really? Doesn’t ANYONE have common sense anymore?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Take your money elsewhere and FAST. That is insane on his part.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

wow thats very inconsiderate of him

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yikes. Although how would you find someone on such short notice?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

Don’t you just wanna jack some people up? Seriously that kid should know better. If you commit to something you have committed to it. Sometimes I just think men are clueless.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper

You should definitely let him know what a crappy position he put you guys in as well.

Post # 11
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Worker bee

Wow, i totally understand your frustraion! Remember though that he is young and probably, or most definitlty has no idea how important this is to you as he’s never been a bride before. 

I would say this also applies to anyone else who is helping in a wedding that kinda srugs things off, they have no idea whats involved or how important is was to you. 

 

Post # 13
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Worker bee

I agree with missflowerball. He probably has no clue that this is so stressful to you. I mean, wedding aren’t a big deal, right? You just show up, watch people who are dressed funny exchange some vows, see some people cry, and then you go dance and eat. No problem, how much planning can it take?

Yeah, that was my idea of weddings before I started learning about them/planning one. Just tell him that you know what it’s like being broke and in college and that you’re glad he’s got a job for the summer but that you would really, really appreciate him being there for the rehearsal or whatever so you guys can go over the music. If you aren’t mad and show him that you really need him and possibly offer to help get him there however possible, he will probably (if he’s a decent person) do what he can to leave the summer camp early. With some time in advance, he can probably talk to coworkers to have someone cover for him or explain the situation to the camp leader who could let him go earlier. 

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